Hello my dear readers,
shades of purple are my big passion and they are a good occasion to finally implant you if you do not do something from heart do not do it at all.
One has to take something if this someone repeats one and the same thing again and again and throws something right into your face with that. The speech is about something a person did for you concerning more or less a sensitive topic to you. As the given occasion took place not even more than one week ago and things are peaceful again by now – even though I happen to fall into such a situation not rarely – I cannot get to precise but for example a person does you an important favor or helps you achieve something significant but at the first occasion this same person reproachfully reminds you that he or rather she did that for you, do you get the idea? Does the situation sound familiar to you? I am telling you, I can really handle a lot but there is nothing I hate more than people throwing something in my face.
“If you do not do anything from the bottom of your heart, deeper than that out of absolute conviction and because you truly want it either for yourself or the person you do it for (…)”
But(!) in that case I have to tell each of these people who play this card as effective secret weapon – no matter how cheeky this may sound now to you – and also ahead of the action for the future as warning, if you do not do anything from the bottom of your heart, deeper than that out of absolute conviction and because you truly want it either for yourself or the person you do it for, for God’s sake, simply do not do it at all!
It is not only a punch in the person’s face worse you are going to be the loser in this game. I experienced it recently:
- either you are going to hear something hurtful (the most hurtful thing one could imagine for you to hear) that if you say it you simply should not have done it
- or (but furthermore an) you are going to reveal yourself as weak which would be the second punch for you.
I know that what you do for a person you do it from heart (at least these heavy weighted things), we all do, but in fact you would not have mentioned it in a dispute as an argument if you would not have done it from heart. Do not act as if what you did was a unique heroic deed. It was not not; it was meaningful, yes, but if you have not done it someone else would have done this job instead of you. Not because you are replaceable and because this someone else would be nothing more than a backup but because the honor goes to you as significant someone more than to anyone else.
Same goes for people who are about to do something but do it out of duty but this is to be continued…
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