Hello my beloved readership,

warm clothing in winter? Stop it. It is going to get hot for cold days but with less rather than more. Naked hints open the gate to absolute self-determination.

“YOU are misunderstanding me”

“YOU are extroverted, we are introverted. That exhausts us.”

“YOU do not know how to accurately communicate –. Just stop it.”

“Not responding–is just rude in YOUR twisted subjective fairy-tale-reality and if they do not respond YOU must have done something.”

“I had a good relationship with– until YOU stepped into his life.”

“YOU are withholding– from me.”

[After all of this]
“Come in now so that we can clear this once and for all. I do not want to stand there as scapegoat.”

[About any person]

• “Are you happy with– ? He/she seems so dominant”
• “This question really hurts them. This person did not sleep all night and spent it crying. Set this clear please.”
• “Come on now, do not make such an unnecessary big deal and drama of this again.”

I mean, apart from the fact that in any kind of negotiation you should remain with you and do not point out the mistakes of the other, this part of a conversation (regardless from the censor) is hardly to outbid from cruelty and morally absolutely reprehensible! Wow… people can get quite nasty when they feel like defending “the honor” of a person close them hurt. I did hear that but this definitely broke all rules. Give someone insane a weapon in the shape of necessary freedom and they will run amok. If you think this in its amount cannot be real then guess what: this was only the “best of” this communication. Just try to imagine what kind of destructive energy such words can have in the intensity they are were allocated. Let me tell you so much: you would not even wish this to your worst enemy.

It may be that one should not let this get too much to their heart but at a certain point the more and the often you get to hear something the more you consider it to be real beyond your control. At least so teaches us philosophy. Such a conversation can traumatize you so that you want to avoid a special area – the scene of the event for a certain time until you feel like you healed. How is it possible that a people like these (and psychopaths like in my article before here) can move freely and get through with this? Where is justice remaining here and why do victims need to spend days, nights and even weeks crying and having some of their relationships with further people poised because they are looking for someone to take responsibility for the pain that they experienced and fought against all on their own?

I can tell you, there is nothing harder than to remain a strong steady wall when you are fighting not to break with all the punches you receive. Standing there all alone with no support just to not let people who are not worth it see your weak side. You learn to stand alone and fight on your own. This is where female self-determination is starting with a power you have no idea about growing. You do in fact right to fear it.

“I still believe in the power of clothing”

Trend: No-Bra-Look

The absolute expression of female self-determination is revelation. “Marilyn Monroe posed in a bikini and Rihanna is doing her female revolution posing naked”, I remember a mate from university saying. Well, personally I still believe in the power of clothing and that some things take place behind closed doors. Thank God our Estonian rocky shadow queen Piret Järvis-Milder has discovered this naked-hints-trend for herself and inspires people like me to dare self-determination in a stylish way. She has worn a similar style for Vanilla Ninja’s comeback concert in winter 2020. Whether her top is a bra or not I cannot tell but I enjoyed wearing this style with a warm leather-jacket for a special dinner dedicated to celebrate my husband.

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Trend: Fake Croco

This precious designer bag is everything but a fake. That is why I have a bad feeling using the term in the context with it since you do usual associate cheap fake copies. But as in fact crocodiles are protected animals, of course, you do not have a real croco-bag but impregnated young buffalo leather which creates this croco-look. Therefor the handbags by Liz Malraux would be my first and only choice for fake croco-looks. You also find this pattern as patches in her signature-dresses, -vests and -blazers that thus all include a very high wearing comfort. Check out one of these items here.

My Look in Details

• Bra/top by ONLY
• Skirt by Orsay
• Boots by H&M
• Leather jacket private
• Lace gloves by Desirée
• Cornet bag by Liz Malraux Couture
• Necklace by Bijou Brigitte
• Earrings by Bijou Brigitte
• Lipstick by NYX Professional Make-Up

Love, Johanna