Hello my dear readership,

the trend-color for the year 2024 in particular is called blue. Check out the style and see how to combine it with another it-item for the spring season.

YOUR COMMENTS CAN MAKE SOMEONE ELSE COMMIT SUICIDE!

Pardon me, I usually avoid written screaming but this topic needs some extra kind of attention. I mean, I know how to deal with such comments having earned knowledge about humanity and psychology. But what about someone who cannot deal with those? Then again, it does not matter if you can deal with such hurtful comments also known as hate-speech or not such comments are still hurtful and concern you up to a certain degree. Especially when people have no place to let their anger, shock or moroseness out this can become in fact very dangerous. Parents or older siblings for instance would tell them to hide themselves since they cannot deal with negative comments. They would on top tell them to wait until they step out to public with a flawless checked product instead of an imperfect trial to minimize the damage.

But if you want to know the truth it does not matter what you do, how you are or what you look like. Someone is always going to spread their poison and complain. If you smile always you are you are annoying. If you keep your life private you are not sympathetic. If you are hard-working you are careless… Some call it the current mood within the society: the COVID-19-pandemics has split the society and now there is an attitude dog eat dog established. Whether this concerns only Germany or further states I cannot tell. I experienced it differently in Estonia and among Armenias all over the world. Also people living in Scandinavia seem to have a more positive way of living… Here in this area people are explaining this aggressive behavior with one crisis haunting the other. Which still is not a justification to hurt someone else and make them possibly commit suicide!

In fact you can believe when people are telling you that hate-speech, bullying and cyber-violence occurs from personal hate towards the own situation and less from hate towards you. How could they hate you anyway? They do not even know you. I can tell you more, if you may think “why should someone envy me? I am not that special.”, firstly you are! And secondly you see that in fact they are. They envy you for being able to do something they would never dare to do.

So finally hate-speech never defines your value but their poor personality. Intellectual and well-educated people would never write destructive comments towards someone else. But haters would not even think or consider that far. They just blindly and mindlessly hate and if they know that they succeeded to hurt you anyhow they will find fulfillment in it. So medial experts will correctly suggest you to not get involved in pointless discussions because they will again use that against you. It is best to not give them the space, the ears and the eyes for their hate-speech. That does not mean that you are not allowed to talk about how you feel about the comments. Because abrupt statements will make you bottle up the negative feelings and this will support your thoughts of isolation, loneliness and carelessness so that you might take that horrible step. You are allowed to feel bad about hate and get the space to talk about it and be listened to actively.The hate and the shit-storm is going to end sooner or later.

“Blue is like Princess Catherine“

Trend: Blue

Blue is like Princess Catherine: completely popular. So why would be put effort in highlighting it as trend on and on? Because if something is great it needs to get the appreciation it deserves. This by the way (to get a little philosophical) is not only for the most obvious things but also those we may take for granted or miss to see because of the things it gets overshadowed with. I somehow (or often) always find blue being extra prominent in the beginning of the year. This may be because it is the color of truth and reliability. Furthermore it symbolizes serenity, stability, inspiration and wisdom as it resembles two colors that include a big deepness, one being the sky and the other one being the ocean. More than their deepness they symbolize their endless horizon which may be a spark of hope. Therefore I am glad to have found inspiration in this style from my long-time idol Piret Järvis-Milder. She however wore a pink blouse. I for myself can say that I was lucky to own this blouse in blue to realize the trend completely.

Trend: Rivets

I do not always put myself in chains. But if I do I equip myself with rivets to shoot whenever I need to. Women with rivets are not only just dangerous any longer. They become an eye-catcher being stylish on top. You can wear them classy on your leather jacket or give it new shapes on items people would not think of. My preferred item for the season remains my blue leather cross-body bag by Cavalli Class which is defining me and what I am about by just being as it is.

My Look in Details

• Shirt by Orsay
• Pants by Esmara
• Boots by Dr. Martens
• Belt by Liu Jo
• Bag by Cavalli Class
• Earrings by GUESS
• Lipstick by NYX Professional Make-Up

Love, Johanna