Autumn-Looks – Powerful & Good-Mood: Extroverted Supremacy

Hello my dear readership,

powerful, big, good-mood-bringing – autumn-looks make the new season launch with various trends that can be perfectly combined together. See it here.

Extroverted people, they are loud, they act hot-headed… while you could think at the first sight that they are the born leaders and alpha-characters in every story reality brought me back to different facts. It is not like my extroversion was kind of criticized but I started to feel like the supremacy lies within the introverted. They are thoughtful, strategic, observers and therefore smart, well-thought-through, … superior simply. Especially as extroverted feeler, who, in all efforts to be logically driven, calm and collected, tends to become emotional I built up more and continuously growing doubts about myself and who I am even in my 30s, even as mother and wife and even with my high university degree. The more I was surrounded my introverted people in higher positions than I was and even the more I was surrounded by extroverted people who told me my extroversion was misplaced I took ideal of becoming introverted in order to become “something better”.

But then an angel’s voice listed some extroverted characteristics she liked about me I tried to realize: there is nothing wrong with extroversion. Yes, someone who is supposed to be in a higher position than you are would rather prefer you to be grovel than a self-confident multi-talent who regards your multi-tasking strength of character as personal threat. I should not have let anyone (especially not introverted people who are backstabbing) tell me there would be something wrong with my talkativeness for instance. This angel’s voice rather regarded this as a gifted ability to close acquaintances and care for relationships and people. I do not want to forget to mention how contagious the energy of an extrovert can be. They exude such a personal light and warmth and self-confidence that you could only take ideal of and feel about to be so healing.

So what do we learn from this? To not let anybody tell you that there is something wrong with you? Definitely! That both extremes – introversion and extroversion are equally legit, necessary and special? For sure! But what is most important is that extroversion is a gift and superpower that you should never give up on. My personal favorite sentence of extroverted people: “I do not need alcohol to have fun!”, same here!

Autumn-Trend: Power-Knit

Knit is called power-knit for this season because it can (and should) be worn in extravagant colours, cuts, pattern and natural fabrics. In order to bring this about I am not only wearing an extra long knit-dress but also knit-tights in a check pattern. The dress is supposed to express with its length while the pattern on the tights should serve as an additional topping. Since they are as well an eye-catcher the look just does not stop with the dress as single key-piece. Like this you get a ”more-is-more“-impact. The power-knit however is colourfully supported by the coat and powerfully with the combat-boots with a plateau.

“If you did not get enough of the bright and happy summer-mood then take your good-mood-expression to the next level.”

Autumn-Trend: Big Shoes

Big, bigger, big shoes – while combat boots based on the “1460” original boot by Dr. Martens has been ruling the world of fashion for the past couple of years the model is reaching the next level and all the other labels are copying it according to their trademark. The famous shoe has developed to “Jadon III” Pisa plateau boot. The probably most famous person wearing this trend is Piret Järvis-Milder from Vanilla Ninja. There is no occasion she does not wear these shoes at and on top she proves like this that there is no style these shoes would not fit. A perfect match.

Vanilla Ninja with Piret at the front with the trendy Dr. Marten plateaus.

Autumn-Trend: Good-Mood-Looks with Maxi-Coats

If you did not get enough of the bright and happy summer-mood then take your good-mood-expression to the next level. While summer has been rather soft and discreet (as you could see here) with colors autumn-looks are adding a topping on this. You are invited to wear maxi-coats or fake-leather-coats in any color you could think of like Buffy played by Sarah Michelle Gellar did when haunting demons and slaying vampires in the late 1990s.
Hint: This year we prefer to leave our hair stuck underneath our coat. For someone like me whose hair gets frizzy and curly with rainy weather this is an excellent trend coming right on time.

A red maxi-coat as good mood autumn-look.
©2022 Fall4Me
A red maxi-coat as good mood autumn-look.
©2022 Fall4Me
Power-knit & big shoes for autumn.
©2022 Fall4Me
Power-knit & big shoes for autumn.
©2022 Fall4Me
Power-knit & big shoes for autumn.
©2022 Fall4Me

My Look in Details:

  • Dress by Orsay
  • Tights by Falke
  • Combat boots by H&M
  • Coat by private

Love, Johanna

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