The Velvet-Suit: Do You Remember?

Hello my beloved readership,

velvet – some love it, the others cannot stand it. Still it makes a trend-revival this season twice as much as a suit. Check out the velvet-suit here.

The longer you have something to more you tend to take it for granted. And then things start to take their course: What you have grows out of interest and just according to human nature you wonder why exactly you should feel responsible to take care of it. This is how it comes that things are losing their beauty and fold. It would be pointless to dedicate a whole article reminding one to take care of things like you would do for flowers, food or the tidiness of your household (in the most ideal case). It is also not the right place, right here, right now to examine factors such as motivation or other duties that would keep you from taking care of what once was important to you and making a turn for them to not be an obstacle for you any longer. Particularly, if it concerns interpersonal, or let us say, the most important interpersonal relationship you have.

The thing is, when a new challenge grows into your relationship (I will leave it to your imagination what that could be) and becomes a daily part of your everyday-routine eventually you might get out of fitness and concentrate on your duties rather than dedicate yourself to what you should actually dedicate yourself to. Well, that is how it is: when you have no reason to fear of losing something that is precious to you you do not necessarily always behave respectfully within your relationship – perhaps because you expect your counterpart to accept you just the way they are overall. But sometimes that is not enough any longer. You grow up challenges arrive, the amount of challenges increases and it is not possible to immediately eliminate factors that stress you. So maybe love may not be enough any longer because acts of service push themselves forward to become your love-language instead of verbal commitments and even they and exchanges of tenderness can become annoying in a stressful everyday-life. And then again you do not need the big show as prove for love and commitment. But that is all not what you need. All you need is a reminder to make you remember why you closed the bond and tied the knot and to remind yourself of what actually matters. In the end the sweet emotion of this beautiful memory is all that it takes to revive the strength and beauty of your relationship.

“When I read about the velvet-suit being a trend I was seriously torn apart: yes…? No… may-be…”

Trend: Velvet-Suit

When I read about the velvet-suit being a trend I was seriously torn apart: yes…? No… may-be… I do not even have a suit… and then I remembered that I do still have my velvet-blazer – the one I got from my mother which I had already presented you here. And suddenly as I thought that I would just need to buy the matching trousers I realized that I would not be opposed to own flared velvet trousers. However during my search I stumbled across a sexier variant and chose this one you see in the final result to complete the suit as the flared trousers were too long and not worth the effort to shorten them. So I took my immediate perfect match and was completely fine with. Even though it does not match the blazer for 100 per cent it still worked for me as I more prefer the mixed suit rather than the uniform one. However this trend-revival asks for uniformity and therefore I chose black pants with some modification as my blazer is also not a classic one itself. The same goes for the white blouse exchanged with a green for the inner side of this blazer. This was also the reason why I as well ordered dark green pants which matched but in the end the will for uniformity overweighted.