Hello my beloved readership,
urban jungle, the most beautiful mess to have highlighting spring. You can get lost in this trend, in a jungle and you can decide to make a break-up their loss.
Am I dragging a story unnecessarily out or am I out of content? Never! Sometimes you need to highlight different aspects in a story what for each one needs its very own space. This is one of the cases; I told you I lost the belief in friendship but I also took you to the journey how I found the belief in it back and recently I dedicated a message to false friends I dealt with which contained the explanation how it got this far. I still stick to it: I would rather have a good family than many bad friends. Certainly we need friends but at what costs? Let us not go back there, the answer is clear. But one other thing, do you remember these times when the friendship (or any kind of relationship) broke up, was unable to be fixed and even after some while when you thought you were over it some memories dropped in and you fell into yearning and self-blaming again? Do not worry, I know how you feel and you are not alone with it but do not do it, do not blame yourself. I do not want to tell you that things simply were not meant to be when we have the power to make anything happen. But by feeling like this I figured out that we are just losing ourselves especially the worth and value in us. Why do relationships break apart because of lies and betrayal, because we do not want to live in a comfortable illusion anymore or because some people cannot deal with their unfulfilled selves and project it on you and you can have the healthy courage to express it exactly this way and not less clear: it. is. their. loss.
The Jungle: Found or Lost
Fight for anything in this life but maintain your mental health to know when things go beyond your control and when it is not anymore worth investing anything. Do not put yourself lower than you are because there are always at least two in a relationship and it cannot always and only be one – especially because the good, the intelligent and common sensed ones happen to feel guilty for the failure but do not do that. Do not stay in a burning house and get burned yourself (and here I come to say it) perhaps sometimes it really is not supposed to be but then you cannot bear all the blame yourself. Perhaps the moment was not the right one by the first time but at the second try you could be lucky that it will work with exactly the same people but if it does not, I am begging you, do not lose the courage to make yourself clear that this is not your loss, it is their loss if they do not cherish you in their life because of… whatever because you are an enrichment for everyone you get in touch with. Everyone can feel happy and blessed to have one like in their life but if they do not want to then they had wanted (huge thanks to my husband for this bombastic and true saying!). You decide what you find and what you let get lost in a messy jungle. What is found is rescued but what you can finally let get lost: Such people you can only wish all the best because they have no idea what they are missing.
My Look in Details
- Blouse, pants and cross body bag by Orsay
- Loafers by Shapó
- Lipstick “Whipped Caviar” by Nyx Professional Make-Up
- Bracelet by J-Club
- Stud earrings by Bijou Brigitte
- Watch by Tommy Hilfiger
This outfit was shot from Saarburg in the Mosel-river-region with love.
[…] reminder: If you want to know what I wore on our trip to Saarburg check out my article about the urban jungle […]