Hello my dear readership,
history lesson number one: when was the Victorian-epoch and what describes romance? You do not need to remember history schooling – especially when it was not your best or most favorite grade at all (pardon me my dear teacher) – to know that the Victorian Romance basically describes nothing more than a kind of new romance, the love towards oneself and the attitude towards the mindset that I am fabulous.
Either you read it in a manga [Japanese comic book] when it is about the question what is joy: “In order to make others joyful you have to make yourself joyful first…” or you realize it as a mother by the advice given by other mothers that “Your baby feels when you are restless therefore it is restless, too.” this repeatedly brings me back to the conclusion that you have to love yourself in the first place to make others love you. No one loves fishers for compliments so do people freak out when within an argument you speak yourself bottomlessly low. Do not do that.
“Romance stands out due to a love and yearning (…) towards something (…) that is always there.”
Romance stands out due to a love and yearning but not towards something we cannot have but something that is always there but we tend to loose frequently when we focus on everything else in our surrounding when building up the construction of our life. It is our very own borders meaning ourselves it is not for no reason that we can run away from everything but from ourselves yet we always seek to be somebody else thinking to be a better self then but that would not be us any longer.
Becoming us requires socialization, beginning from the family up to friends, colleagues and idols we create for ourselves it is a tough fight, a long way and hard work that never even seems to come to a finish so that we could enjoy it – especially because of the confrontation that not everyone can or will like us no matter if it is within or beyond our control so we for example see popular fellows and think that it would be better and easier to be them but what if we give a damn and accept even the not-so-glory aspects of us as part of a perfect whole and create a mindset of how fabulous we are? From one minute to the other we can change a whole wide world to join us with this love and admiration towards us.
Rocky & Transparent / Red on Black That is the New Romance
Rock and transparent, self-confident; red on black, sexy; self-love, seductive. A reveal with a whole lot of secrets is myself in an extended version as the year-ending is approaching it is always time for a (personal) recap: balancing of good and bad, learning and developing and restarting as a better version of oneself yet getting back to oneself. I for myself I am going through many trends (also with always a trademark of myself included of course) as the year is ongoing so does each year present us a bundle of new trends but some things will never change: 1. My passion towards black and red lips and 2. That red and black are always back for pre-winter and the launch of Christmas time. Another forgotten old love of mine very obviously as well as for my most favorite band Vanilla Ninja, their reunion as well as their re-interpretation of their iconic rocky style.
My Look in Details
- Blouse by Adagio/Galeria Karstadt Kaufhof
- Belt by C&A
- Faux leather leggings by New Yorker
- Ankle boots by Buffalo
- Cross body bag by Ted Baker
- Earrings by TOSH
- Lipstick by NYX Professional Make-Up