French Tweed: The Best Psychologist

Hello my beloved readership,

we all want to be French or at least live la vie Français a first step for that is to dress French. Having this in mind welcome back French tweed. Equal to that the best psychologists are us ourselves.

“My dearest M. this article is dedicated to you and our last talk. Thank you and love you.”

“He/she needs a psychologists.”
“In that case everyone in here needs a psychologist! …”
“I refuse to go to the psychologist!”, but “She is a graduated psychologist, she knows what she is talking about.”
But in the end the best psychologists are our fellows…

This dialogue actually took place, not on this construction but these quotes come from dialogues with my fellows and put together perfectly introduce today’s topic.

We are all bearing sorrow in us. Something is always going on and not matter how quickly and structured we are looking to solve our problems. As one problem is solved the next one is not far off. Sad reality, is it not? Even if we wished it to be different we are all suffering because of different things, our hearts being differently heavy but we are all suffering equally yet seeing the light in the dark. But what interests me more in this coherence is, whom do you talk to first?

– “I called you because you have experienced this issue already so you would understand me best.”
– “I will talk to her, she always knows what to say, honestly but in my favor.”
– “He is a great listener.”
– “I can talk to you about anything, you won’t judge me.”
And in the end.
– “Psychologists are misplaced. They are majorly just looking to earn money/prescribe you medicines. They won’t be of much help.”
– “A priest is the better psychologists.”

More words I was told directly or said myself but moreover accurate universal answers to my leading question. The least of us are running to a psychologist when we do not necessarily need them. First of all we were told that our most intimate problems are none of strangers’ business and secondly going to a psychologist is often connected to the thought of personal or surrounded failure. In fact we often look for our close ones first to share the heaviness of our heart since we believe that our close ones will honestly constructively try to help us without seeking for personal benefits because in fact talking things out and having someone to at least listen to us will make us feel better in the most efficient way. Some of them are born to do that despite having problems themselves and sometimes people like you and I may think we better became psychologists but the best psychologists are us anyway having this title officially or not as we listen and solve with concern and dedication and do not need to make it our profession necessarily.

We are all Psychologists just like we all want to be French

When we think of France we think of high fashion ruling international fashion, we think of art and the nation to be our teacher in that, we think of elegance, beauty and nobleness let go the sweet delicacies and having the French capital in our mind we think of love. We love France along with its exports, we love French culture and lifestyle, the most beautiful language in the world and we love the French mindset therefore us fashionistas at least dress French because French fashion never goes out of fashion. Equal to that everyone of us wants to make the world a better place and help others. This positive contribution can take place in the most different shapes one of them is listening and if needed give advises. Therefore we are all psychologists and on top the best ones because we do it from heart.

Beige on top combined with black on the bottom. On the focus, the French tweed blazer.