Hello my beloved readership,
at least one season in the year brings it on: the animal-, in particular leo-print. This time it is autumn and between cold and wild I would like to take up the topic of social dealings in the following as these two attitudes bear a lot of major human behavior.
“[Name of the person]! You cannot talk to xy like this!” – whether we say this sentence behind locked doors or wish to be invisible when we witness a situation between our fellows that cause uneasiness and wish to be invisible of shame the emotional massacre between people happens to be a daily routine for the majority of the world driven by the illusion that they simply say what they think “honestly”, just stand to their opinion which is their right or worst insist on their right… [facepalm]. [ALERT!-sound] there exists an art of communication.
Sadly this emotional massacre that takes place in these above described scenarios happens to be a daily routine to the majority of the world…
“Words can be hurtful.”
No master has yet fallen from the sky and that is absolutely okay! We all have to get somewhere through our experiences, self-reflection and a demanding surrounding, I have got there and still am constantly getting there because in my state you want to have as less struggles as possible for your own sake! Perhaps some people have not figured that much out yet but one of the things we have to get to is that words can be hurtful, a very true philosophy you may learn in renowned universities. Words can be understood wrongly by the receiver regardless from the tone and only be made up with hard effort. With that another lecture of life goes by that sorry is the hardest word.
“One really needs to learn social-dealings”, I conclude at the end of the day. It does not mean that I feel superior to anyone or anything or that I constantly feel like teaching anyone anything (for those who would like to accuse me for the opposite though I want to tell them: know me before judging me, I have more than enough to do raising my child!) but bad messages get delivered better with something sweet added. There is no need to play pretend, to throw away all your principles or become a hypocritical liar, there is just need either be the understanding type or the charming type.
Animal Feels in Animal Print
The most ridiculous sentence, which we are not able to blame humanity for that saying that, is: “You act like animals!”
Why can we legitimate it? Because animals are known to act by instinct and are naturally wild beings and why is it ridiculous? Because everyone who has owned or lived with an animal knows that even the wildest of them is sensitive and full of feelings, emotions and comprehension. I belong to the type of people who say that the worst animals are humans themselves and that actual animals are absolutely harmless. Animals protect their race and share the mentality of togetherness. They are equal to each other and get dangerous when they feel in danger. But they are also capable of living beside each other on the same ground peacefully or with as less harm as possible with different species. These are the instincts they are driven by and these are the kinds of social dealings we should adopt: Going carefully on our fellow people as we would when feeling our way towards them.
My Look In Details
- Dress by C&A
- Boots by Görtz
- Cross body bag by Ted Baker
- Lipstick by “Whipped Caviar” NYX Professional Make-Up
- Watch by Wempe