Hello my beloved readership,
two season trends of autumn combined: lavender on leather and beige powder-shades. Three tender fashion elements like three tender words “it is okay” and you will be able to build you up a rough like leather barrier. Read more about it in the following.
Lately you always hear me say three simple words, “it is okay”. Whether it is good or bad “it is okay”. But I might not like it or it may disturb me, never mind “it is (all) okay”. While approximately two years ago my ultimate answer used to be “why not?”, I am reaching my next level by saying “it is okay”, no matter about what.
No, it is still not that I would not care and only because I have a child now it does not mean that I have stopped having an own opinion or fight for my principles. Perhaps some of you will not even buy me this calmness I seem to remain as much as I raise my voice, hate to pretend to be someone I am not and am indeed a tempered person or furthermore you may not buy that I am actually okay with things even if I claim the opposite or just want to flatter you. I am going to end this paragraph with the same word I started it with, no.
“Saying these words I just and in the first place and above all I want to express my comprehension for each. one. of. you!”
It is okay, this time without quotation marks needed because it is absolutely alright. These three words do not decide whether something is right or wrong or true or false or real or unreal. Saying these words I just and in the first place and above all I want to express my comprehension for each. one. of. you! It is okay because there is a reason for everything in this world, it is ok because we live in a balanced world of action and reaction, it is okay because you are okay with how you feel, think and what you do. Even if I may not understand or know about your motivation, I would not necessarily need it at all and you know what? Because I know that you yourself might have not found this reason even though it is there. I do not need to agree with you in any terms and I do not have to like you and even if you are right with how you feel, think or what you do it will not matter because it is okay. For now it is okay, remain there in being okay but leave the rest up to me how to handle it and be yourself okay with that if not…
Many Things at Once Become Easy to Handle
If a look can win without black once in a while everything is possible! Lavender, beige, powder-shades, those three colorful elements in fashion are tender in a rough time of cold autumn even though they get supported with leather that is acting normal by serving as more than just a jacket but clothes in the colorful version. Let me translate the fashion-talk into the mindful material: “It is okay” are three words with a tender performance just like the three trend colors. “It is okay”, I say it and I mean it (up to a certain degree). Further than for comprehension I perform with these words because life is tough enough with its daily small but numerous and long-term big but fewer obstacles – even though life may seem full of luxury and carefreeness because the actual matters are lying way too deep. I have enough sorrow to think of and dedicate my energy to to start unnecessary disputes by putting people into discomfort showing no comprehension for them. If I remain calm in situations like these I will be able to be strong where and what for it is needed because even my strength has its source.
My Look in Details
- T-Shirt with slogan by New Yorker
- Cardigan by Paparazzi
- Leather jacket by Street One
- Faux leather pants and earrings by Orsay
- Ankle boots by s.Oliver
- Cross body bag by Görtz
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