Hello my dear readership,
even if we seem or even are annoyed about it for whatever reason, people are not majorly fishing for compliments in order to receive them but because they are unsure how to be thankful without seeming arrogant. In the following I want to lead the way to have the courage and self-confidence about the discreet way to say ‘thank you’.
In a world where everyone wants to be popular or famous, is self-centered, lifts himself up by pulling others down and acts as if compliments would cost money there are others that are constantly losing their self-confidence and do not even know how to deal with it when receiving compliments.
“People feel like they need to justify themselves for the compliment they have received.”
Somehow a duty comes up and people feel like they need to justify themselves for the compliment they have received. Even if they try out something new which they happen to like or looks actually good no one would dare to proudly present it. Just like they would not when having something new because these people are standing within the judgement between showing off and being unsure whether the others will be truly happy with them or not.
A vicious circle: they have put honest effort in the best treatment for themselves because everyone has the right to be good to himself but cannot share their happiness because not everyone begrudges the success or achievement. Why? Certainly because they do not have it themselves, whether it is a good, success, beauty or even satisfaction.
So it is not the fault of the people to have something or fish for compliments but a false modesty or even a lost self-confidence because of the wrong attitude of the people who are not content with themselves or their life and let it out even on their closest fellows.
On the other hands when you are unsure about yourself people seem annoyed either because they cannot understand how you cannot see the value in you or they think you would not cherish what you have while they do not even might have that. Do them a favour and prove them wrong.
You do not have to exaggerate it but you as well must not lose your value. If you receive kindness in compliments return this kindness and spread love. As a result there is going to come a balance into being of taking and going and you yourself do not have to feel negative about compliments. There is nothing wrong in bearing a little bit of pride and cherishing kind words, the only wrong thing to do is being stingy with regard in things that should actually not cost a thing.
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